Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Moments To Remember

Moments To Remember
Justin ready for the prom.
 
We all remember our high school days and those special moments that go along with this time in our lives.  It was when we got our driver's license, had our first date, went to prom and graduation.  Then we go out into "the real world" and start a family sooner or later.  We then long for our children to have their special moments when they reach high school, but since Justin has special needs I never thought this would happen for him.

I have to say I was pleasantly surprised when the opportunity arose for Justin to attend his prom.  Yes, you read that right.  Justin went to his prom. I was so excited and nervous for him at the same time.  His teacher would chaperone, but being a mother I still worried.  Would he have fun?  Would he fit in?  Would this be a moment in his life he would fondly remember?  All I could do was say a prayer and hope for the best.

I remember my heart filling with pride as I helped him with his tux.  He wasn't the little boy I remember, but instead he was a young man.  To keep from crying I asked him what he was going to do at prom and couldn't help but giggle when he replied he was going to shake his booty.  After a quick stop at my parents' home, the family was off to celebrate Justin's special night.  We met several others at a mexican restaurant to have dinner and went to take pictures at the local college.  Then it was time for the big event and was shocked at how quick Justin jumped in the car with his teacher, leaving me behind. 

After he made it to the prom, the rest of the family went to do a little shopping, but I couldn't really concentrate on what items I needed as my mind was solely on Justin.  Then I received a call from his teacher as we were getting ready to leave.  Excitement welled up inside of me as she spoke of Justin being in the middle of a group of students dancing and having fun.

When we picked him up, I asked him if he had a good time and I will never forget him replying "it real awesome." and grinning from ear to ear.  What a wonderful moment for my son.  A moment that I never thought would happen.  A moment that he will always remember.  A moment that I will always remember. 

So I say to all the parents out there with special needs children, it's ok to have hopes and dreams for our children.  Many times with just a little effort and understanding, these dreams will in fact become some of the sweetest moments to remember.

Thanks for reading and sharing one of our moments,
Angela :)

7 comments:

  1. Angela-I'm so happy for you and Justin! Treasure this memory and know that God has many more precious times stored up for Justin- He has plans of good- plans to prosper him. This is just the beginning! hugs sweet friend- you're such a good mom!

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    1. Thanks Cindy. This memory will forever be etched in my heart. I am so proud of my little man.

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  2. Thanks so much Cindy. I was so happy for him. It is certainly a memory that will be forever etched in my mind. I love knowing the Lord is using my family to do his work. I pray we will always be obedient to His call.

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  3. I am happy for Justin....so glad he had fun.Chase also had fun and I know exactly how you felt, I was also stressed that Chase would not fit in but he did. I am so glad he had the chance to go to his senior prom it will always be something for him to cherish.

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    1. I am glad Chase had fun too. He is such a sweet handsome young man. I am glad this opportunity presented itself so they could have this moment they will always remember. It is also a moment we will always remember. Stay in touch.

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  4. I am so glad that Justin had a wonderful time at his Prom! Memories were made that will stay with you forever! Remember how much fun we had shopping for your prom Dress? Years fly by quickly, but memories never fade! Justin was so handsome in his Tux! He is so precious and I love him so very much! I love all of you so very much!! Mom

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    1. Thanks Mom. I remember shopping for my prom dresses. It was a lot of fun. I am glad you and dad got to share in Justin's prom memories. We love you all very much too. :)

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